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SquirtingTruth:
How To Ejaculate
Before making any efforts to learn how to ejaculate please keep in mind that
studies show not all women will be able to ejaculate. That is not to say
that it cannot be learned but that it is possible that some women will not be
able to, for whatever reason.
1. The g-spot stimulation needed for ejaculation may, in itself, cause a
very satisfying type of orgasm. Whether you ejaculate or not, this
intense orgasm is certainly worth the effort.
 1. Learn about your body You need to know where your g-spot is located and be familiar with the basics of female ejaculation, e.g. where the fluid comes from (not the vagina). If you need help with this please check our G-Spot / Female Prostate page. It has complete information including diagrams, to help you. 2. Practice Kegel Exercises Both women and men do kegel exercises to strengthen their PC muscles. Not only do they have many benefits such as increasing blood flow, they can help women achieve both orgasms and I believe, ejaculation. Please see our page on Kegel Exercises. 3. Communication Communication is the most important thing for any female wishing to learn how to ejaculate. Why? In order to ejaculate women need not just good but great sex and there is nothing that can ruin great sex more than a lover who does all the wrong things. Some women have very sensitive g-spots. Maybe direct or hard/fast manipulation is just too much for us. Perhaps the vibration of a vibrator is what we need. Maybe the feeling starts but then we need them to go faster and harder. Maybe your partner brings you close then wonders off and begins doing something else. Not only do we have to experiment to discover what works for us, we all need to convey this to our partners. Whether you ejaculate or not, the improved communication in your relationship will not only strengthen your relationship but open up a whole new world between you and your partner sexually. 4. Learning to Relax the Urethra Women are programmed to act properly, especially when it comes to 'bathroom manners' and plain and simply, ejaculation conflicts with that. For those who are battling the subconscious resistance of our bodies to close everything up tight when we're about to ejaculate, nothing is more important than re-teaching our minds. After all it is our minds that control our muscles. In the case of female ejaculation the part of our body that needs to be re-taught is the urethra. It allows urine to pass and just as with men, it allows ejaculation to occur. We've spent a lifetime teaching it to hold things in while we're in bed, now we have to teach it to let things out. So how do we do this? I would suggest that you begin by learning how to relax the urethra and urinate in places and in positions that you're not accustomed to. Here are some examples:
- Standing I would suggest the bathtub for most as it makes for a quick and easy clean up. As long as you learn how to relax your urethra at will, you have half the battle won.
5. Learning to Relax Your Body
a) tense up, arching her back and forcing her hips into the bed
ultimately stopping it; or
This happens because of the intense feelings being brought on and because often the urge
to 'pee' kicks in, causing a mental panic. You can learn to relax through
this feeling and bring your body back under your control.
Please see our Relaxation page for full
information and instructions.
Proceed to Technique: With A Partner Proceed to Technique: Masturbation
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