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SquirtingTruth:
The Female Prospective
This section is devoted to women and their thoughts on female ejaculation.
Many women come to our site because they have experienced female ejaculation and
they are looking for someone to reinforce the fact that they are normal and
special.
Getting information from the professionals is fine, but when it comes down to it, nothing is more helpful to women than hearing from other women.
Please feel free to contribute to this section and contribute to our efforts to
have women support women.
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Rebecca 39 28 Aug 06
I'm happy to be the one starting this section off as I feel it's so important to women.
My first real experience with female ejaculation happened in 2000. It was the first time that I and my now husband were together (completely intoxicated) and I left a huge puddle on a chair after he performed oral on me. I knew the orgasm that night was mind-blowing but given my state of mind and lack of information at that time I had no idea why.
Surprisingly, there were no more puddles after that and I continued to be puzzled about what happened that night.
Years later I came across a site with a video clip and after watching it I automatically assumed it was a urination video. What other explanation could there be? Well, the clue was in the title - 'female ejaculation'. At that point I decided to try and find out more.
It took a lot of research but eventually I read enough and learned enough that I realized what had happened that night years ago. I also realized that this was something I wanted to do again. Memories fade but the memory of that orgasm will last forever!
I filled my husband in on my new 'project' and educated him on what I had learned. He was more than happy to help me try to recreate the experience.
For the next day or so I practiced tips on relaxing the urethra. (See the How To Ejaculate section). That night we gave it a go.
I have to be honest, it took about 2 hours from start to finish. The biggest problem I had was allowing myself to just go with it. It was very difficult. But ultimately I did and I ended up soaking the bed. Hubby made me ejaculate something like 7 times that first time.
Since then we've both gotten better at it and now I can cum in about 15 minutes. I have no intention of ever giving this up. I've always found that even massive clitoral orgasms leave me 'needing something' and the orgasms connected to ejaculation are the first to leave me completely satisfied after sex.
As for my husband, he loves it and the communication needed to pull this off actually seems to have strengthened our marriage even further. Overall it's one of the best projects I've ever taken on.
Elizabeth 29 Sept 06
I think you're doing a great service to women by providing this site. It is educational, truthful and presented in a way that even a bashful woman could feel comfortable here.
For all the women who hold back in fear: Talk to your partner. Ask them straight out how they feel about FE. I bet you'll be surprized that they will be interested! Learn how to let go and experience something natural and incredibly pleasurable!
Thanks for providing this educational site for both women AND men.
Justina 37 30 Aug 06
I hate it. I have been able to ejaculate for about 5 years. I discovered this by accident. I was masturbating and had an incredible urge to push. It felt like the urge to push during birth. It was a absolutly satisfing feeling like a great release.I kept this a secret. I didn't tell my husband about it, because he is very old fashioned there is 12 years differance in our ages. He is ignorant of the female body. Conversation on the matter makes him very uncomfortable. We have been married 9 years and he was beginning to open up and try new things. He is very very good at oral sex and we have been getting a little kinky in the last year. Well during one of our oral sex sessions with him using his mouth on my clitoris and a dildo in my vagina. I had a FE and he saw it. He didn't say anything right then. But about a week later he told me he had seen it. He said it was milky white and watery at the same time about a teaspoon of fluid. Now he is afraid to have oral sex with me because he thinks in his mind that it is a form of semen and he says it makes him feel gay and is afraid to get it in his mouth. Well that was in April 2006 it is now August 31 2006 and he still has not had oral sex with me. I can not have a orgasm with plain intercourse. And he won't agree to me using a vibrator because he thinks I should be satisfied by just him. But that is all he will do now. This has me very seriously thinking about divorce because I can't live like this. I don't know what else to do about it.
Rebecca 39 31 Aug 06
Justina, you didn't leave me an email so I could contact you so hopefully you'll see this. It sounds like your husband has some personal issues that he needs to resolve, probably best done with therapy. The problem isn't yours, it's his. I hope more men and women will post so that you'll see that the rest of the world is pretty okay with this. And not just okay, the majority of men I've talked to are turned right on by it, it makes them feel secure knowing they can bring their partners this kind of satisfaction. Come on people, get posting.
Gary 2 Sept 06
Justina, the answer is simply, your husband isnt the type of guy who finds pleasure in pleasuring females. Also, if your husband isnt good enough, according to your words, you should tell him he isnt satisfying you. I'm at the point where I can make my girlfriend do it in 10 seconds, but she hates it (it's too messy, according to her).
A 27 6 Sept 06
I am 27 years old and have been divorced for 3 years. My ex husband was bland in the bedroom to say the least. Not once in our years together did he ever make me cum...not ONCE. Now Ihave been seeing this AMAZING guy for about a year and a half and he is completely the opposite. We are open , honest, we communicate and we are both more than willing to try new things with each other. After of course discussing what it is we want to try. Now he has expressed his enjoyment of FE to me many times. He NEVER complains about our sex. He says he wants to make me "squirt" as he calls it. He says I always get very wet but he wants to "gush". He loves that. I have only been able to gush one time when I was alone masterbating. Im not even sure I can do it with him. Like I said its only happened once. I have done plenty of research on this subject and I want to try this with him. Im not sure I can. how can I relax and get to that point wiht him? I know he is more than willing to put in the work.
Erin 18 7 Sept 06
It was really strange! My boyfriend was fingering me, and it felt particularly good, and felt the urge to push, so I did, and when I finished, he was sort of staring at me with a "wow" expression. I wondered what he was wowing at, so I asked him, and he showed me his hand, which was literally covered in my cum, as well as the bedsheets all around me. I didn't even know a girl could do that, and neither did he! I've been researching it since thata happened, and it seems that it's a rare, special thing for a girl to be able to do that, and since I'm rather plain, all things considered, I think it's really cool that I can do that. It makes me feel special. (Sounds corny, sue me, but it's true!)
Luco UK 22 8 Sept 06
I am posting in the female section because I think you ladies need to hear this more than the guys.
There is nothing sexier than giving each other pleasure, and any man who reacts in a negative way to gushing is either ignorant to the facts, or gay, or has deep psychological issues or a combination of the three. When a man ejaculates, he feels that sense of fulfillment and completeness of orgasm EVERY SINGLE TIME. You need to explain to your man that you need to cum on his face too! (a bit of a crude explanation but that's what it is!)
I first noticed the FE when giving oral. As my woman got more aroused I noticed that the fluid was changing in taste, it suddenly became thick, creamy, and really sweet. I started moaning myself because I couldn't believe how good it tasted, and since that day I gave it the nickname "the good stuff". I would tell her as I moved downwards that I wasn't going up again till I'd had my fill of the good stuff! The hardest part for yourself as a woman will be breaking through the social taboos about what it is to be a woman, and learning to relax and lose yourself in lovemaking without worrying about how your partner will react. For most of you, your body will be a bigger obstacle than your boyfriend, I personally find gushing to be THE BIGGEST compliment a woman could ever give me about my ability in the bedroom!
Blokes can be shy with bedroom stuff too (I still find it hard to talk dirty, even though my girlfriend has asked me to), and they may need to be reassured that they are not inadequate if you can't reach FE during lovemaking. Just try not to make a big deal of it, you will react better to each other if he feels confident in his own ability, we can be very sensitive emotionally when it comes to "performance".
If all else fails, get drunk together first as it will release your inhibitions, as Rebecca has shown so beautifully in her post!
Good luck girls and go for it xxx
Barbie 38 8 Sept 06
My boyfriend has managed to make me squirt a few times now and whilst I love it when it happens I still need some reassurance that I havn't peed myself!! He is totally relaxed about it though and always puts me at my ease so I am learning to relax and let it go. It is certainly nowhere near two cupfuls but it is enough to splash us both. It takes quite a while for it to happen and it has only been when I am extremely turned on! It is a totally different feeling than an orgasm from clitoral stimulation so I'd like to get more practice at it to decide which I enjoy the most but he tells me it is not easy because of the time it takes and it wears him out; the quicker he buys his multi-gym the better is all I can say!!
Evie 34 9 Sept 06
What a fantastic site! I have only FE'd a couple of times. the first time I really thought I'd pee'd and was thinking that he would be thinking oh my god... I didn't get any negative reaction, but thinking it was urine, i had an internal dialogue with myself thinking it must be stress incontinence. I have researched it a bit more since then and clearly it is FE but I have to be very turned on and able to just let go and go with it. :-)
I think as women we are too hard on ourselves, trying to hold ourselves in the stereotypes. having discussed it most men find it a real turn on. To be honest as women i would say most of us are very accepting about our partners and whilst not all are sure what we feel of it, we shouldn't be surprised that we are accepted for this also!
Luco I think your message was rightly placed! and Rebecca I am sad for your husband. maybe give him time, has he seen this site?
xxx
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